புதிதாக மணம் செய்துகொண்ட இளம் தம்பதிகளுக்கு, வாத்சாயனர் தனது காம சூத்ரா நூலிலும், திருவள்ளூர் தனது திருக்குறளின் இன்பத்துப் பால் மூலமாகவும்,தம்பதிகள் தங்கள் இல்லற வாழ்வில் முழு திருப்தியுடன் வாழும் வழி பற்றி விளக்கி உள்ளார்கள். அதை இளம் தம்பதிகள் நன்கு படித்து வாழ்வில் நன்மைகள் பெறவேண்டும்.
In Kamasutra it tells all manner of challenging positions. Vatsyayana has given the art of love making a dual responsibility and given both the sexes equal level of satisfaction. There are positions in the Kamasutra where woman-power is given lot of importance. Vatsyayana and Thiruvalluvar in Thirukkural have given woman so much supremacy in love making and telling man under her control.
1.The Kshudgaga Position Vatsyayana describes this position as follows:
The wife sits with raised thighs, her feet placed either side of your waist; "linga" (penis) enters "yoni" (vagina); you rain hard blows upon her body: This is "Kshudgaga". Thus in this position the woman sits astride the man with her feet positioned on either side of his waist and the man enters her with hard blows. This position gives very limited scope of penetration and enjoyment.
2.The Padma Position Vatsyayana describes this position as follows:
The man sitting facing her, he grasp her ankles and fasten them like a chain behind your neck, and she grips her toes as you make love, it is the delightful "Padma" (The Lotus)." In this position the woman has to sit on the man's lap facing him and the man lifts the woman's ankles which he positions behind his neck. He then proceeds to enter her while she grabs hold of her feet and helps the thrusting motion
3.The Kaurma Position Vatsyayana describes this position as follows:
The man and lady seated face to face, his toes caress the lovely woman's nipples, her feet press your chest and you make love holding each other's hands It is "Kaurma", the Tortoise." This is an extremely intimate and sensuous position in which touching and eye-contact is very important. The partners face each other in a seated position with their feet on each other's chest. "Sitting face to face in bed, her breasts pressed tight against your chest, let each of you lock heels behind the other's waist, and lean back clasping one another's wrists.
4.The Dolita Position Vatsyayana describes this position as follows:
This is Dolita Position (The Swing)) This position is basically about togetherness and being physically intimate. The penetration and thrusts here is almost negligent because of the peculiarity of the position.
5. The Samdamsha Position .
This is "Samdamsha". In this position where Vatsyanana gives absolute power and control to the woman. The man in this position literally has to back and enjoy while the woman has to do all the hard work. In this position the woman enjoys all the supremacy and can control the thrusts and penetration. Thus in this position the woman has to sit on the man's lap and she holds the man's penis in a vice-like grip and skillfully manipulates Movement inside her till and controls the thrusts and penetration.
Vatsyayana in Kamasutra and Tamil Poet Thiruvalluvar in Thirukkural enlightened the ways for young couples for leading a happy satisfied married life. I suggest the Young couples must read the full versions of the Books, and grasp the good and leave the bad from them.